Don’t Focus on Others Opinions

If you are too focused on what other people’s opinions are of you, you won’t have time to focus on other things in life. Focusing on yourself and your life is more important than what other people think of you. Trying to fit in and change yourself in accordance with other people’s opinions only ends in failure. Not only will you have failed but you probably won’t even recognize yourself. Truly you cannot be worried about the opinions of others your whole life(except for your boss) otherwise you will get nowhere in life just trying to fit in a mold that isn’t for you. Why worry about what others think when you can focus on bettering and improving upon yourself how you want to. To focus on others and their opinions of you is to neglect yourself. Relax and enjoy the ride that is life, if there is something you wish to change because you want to, focus on that, don’t change because someone else wants you to. Forcing yourself to change based upon other people isn’t going to help you in the long run, its going to hurt you, years later you will still be trying to undo the changes you made that you didn’t even really want. You won’t recognize yourself, because you’ve changed so much to fit in, and other people might not recognize you as well. Being an independent individual and doing your own thing also helps you stand out because you’re not trying to be like other people and you want to do and be what you want to do and be. So go out and live your whole life as yourself and not someone that other people want you to be.